Lessons of the Priest
Lawrence Lerner • April 18, 2017

Living in the now

At Pantheacon 2017, I was fortunate enough to perform sacred service in the hospitality room hosted by a Pagan church. Shrine scenes for Hestia and Aphrodite were held by different priestesses. I held my Patron, Eris.


Of course, the details of what happened during this sacred service are private. It's between the pilgrims who came to visit and Eris. But, I'd like to share what happened as O/our time of service was coming to an end.


The High Priest entered the room where Eris was receiving pilgrims. He informed U/us, "Great lady, you have 10 minutes more." Time, and for that matter distance, are concepts that Eris seems to have a loose or at least very different understanding of we mortals.


Eris left me with a message to convey. "Priest, for Eris, there is only now and later. She has a limited and different concept of time."

"What about before?" he queried.


I didn't have an answer.


I didn't think about it very much at the time. But, admittedly, I was a bit euphoric from this session of service. In my life, it's been not often that I have been able to bring a message from a god to pilgrims in a very tangible way. For a deity so often associated with discord, Eris has a profound way of pulling on the one thread that brings simple questions, with complex answers, to the foreground. Understanding Her lessons takes much time and reflection.


I keep a journal of my lessons from Eris. Whenever I work through a task, I try to reframe it into the form of a question. What is the problem or question I am trying to answer? In this instance, I concluded I wanted to know, "What does now really mean? Is it simply a point in time or something more?" Hence, mediation, and I've written this article with Her guidance.


I've concluded that now is the culmination of every



  • Past choices and decisions we make
  • Conscious choices made by others that directly affect us or our environment
  • Influence (s) from things in our environment (a bird flying past that causes us to turn our head, a tree/building/obstruction we go around, an apple in the path of the protagonist)


Now is a point of arrival. Now is a series of intersecting waves of Influence that emanate from events and choices. It's a rich and complex state of being to be studied and appreciated. Bad times come, too; those are lessons for us that may serve us later.


Much of the studies, rituals, and general work we do in our spiritual and mundane lives involves being in or getting to the now. Being mindful and understanding our surroundings or circumstance of who we are at a given moment is something that every witch or Pagan appreciates. We've learned or been taught to ground before, after a ritual, or when doing spell work. Times of stress or other deep emotions are other good candidates. At those times, we're brought back from the loss of being the now. Being mindful and in the now are possibly the best things we can do for ourselves and maybe everyone else.


There is a timeless quality and a deep sense of connection to all when invoked with Eris. There is a profound awareness of everything around me, and the feeling of everything is reduced to a single point within me. I am often blind yet keenly aware (Others who have been within the sphere of Influence while invoked with Eris have experienced this as well) of my surroundings.


Now is a single point, the apex or perhaps an all-encompassing sphere of everything around me. Everything I am, everything I touch, and everything that's affected by me have significant and profound consequences in the here and now. Everything you do or are in the process of doing at some point becomes your past and everyone else's past. Eris's important lesson is about self-control, mindfulness, and minding what you do and to whom. As witches, we are constantly taught that our intents, thoughts, and actions make the world around us. As within, so without.


There's an adage, "those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it." While that's true, being mindful that this now will become everyone's past gives you the one and only opportunity to change or affect it. Standing on this horizon, you can anticipate the changes you will make in the future and alter them. This is, perhaps, the only tangible form of time travel that exists. You must recognize that every action, every intention has a lasting effect in ever-widening spheres of Influence. What you've done to arrive at the here and now is more important than the past lesson. As with any line, it's made of a series of now points. You don't move through time; it is time that moves around us.


Steering vs. Navigating


One thing that I've learned is to steer and not try to navigate the currents. Let things be and happen in their own time and accord. The advice I most often get from my guides is the same. Stop trying to force life into happening. That doesn't mean you shouldn't prepare or have prepared yourself through discipline, education, practice, and training. It does mean that trying to force things is less likely to get the result the universe needs it to have. Be in the now instead of trying to make it happen.


Imagine being dropped into a rushing river. There are many things you can and can't control on the river. You can't control the current; you can't control obstacles or other obstacles in the river. But you can reach out to them. You may alter your course with the right effort, but you're still in the river. All you have is your emotional state of being. Your mental health, level of physical performance, stress level, and mental preparedness for how you make it downstream.


What of Later?


Later is the apex of choices made (the latest now you can see/touch). The intersection or merging of the lines of choice that passed through your life. In some traditions, these are sometimes called threads.


Somewhere in all of this is a lesson about the Wheel. If you go far enough into the future, perhaps we end up in the past or a past somewhere else along the spiral; circles within a circle.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR


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By Silent February 8, 2026
A client once said something that still tightens my chest when I remember it: “I signed the consent form. I even wanted it. But once I was in it… I would have agreed to anything.” That sentence is the whole problem. We like consent because it feels clean. It gives us paperwork, language, a signature. It lets facilitators and institutions say, We did our part. But in altered states—psychedelic, trance, breathwork, deep somatic release, intensive prayer, even certain hypnotic or charismatic group settings—traditional consent models start to fail right where we most need them. Not because consent doesn’t matter. Because consent alone is not designed for asymmetry. When consciousness shifts, power shifts. Suggestibility changes. Attachment patterns surge. The nervous system becomes porous. The meaning-making engine gets hot. And in that heat, “yes” can become less a choice and more an adaptation. If we’re serious about integrity in this work, we have to stop designing consent for legal comfort—and start designing it for altered consciousness. The limits of pre-session consent Pre-session consent assumes a stable decision-maker. It assumes a person can accurately forecast what it will feel like to be in a destabilized, emotionally amplified, reality-rewriting interior landscape. It assumes the “self” who signs the form is the same “self” who will be experiencing the session. But altered states don’t work that way. In the hours—or minutes—when someone is opening, grieving, dissociating, regressing, seeing symbols, meeting the dead, revisiting trauma, or merging with something they experience as divine, their capacity to evaluate risk and advocate for boundaries can radically diminish. Not because they’re “weak.” Because they’re human. Even in ordinary life, consent is contextual: the same touch can be welcome on one day and violating on another. In altered states, context doesn’t just change. It mutates. And the body’s “yes/no” signals can become harder to access, harder to name, harder to trust. A signed form can’t anticipate: · The sudden emergence of terror that wasn’t present in intake · The impulse to please the guide when the psyche feels childlike · The collapse of time, memory, or language · The “sacred framing” that makes ordinary boundaries feel irrelevant · The fear of being abandoned if the client says no mid-stream So yes, get informed consent. Absolutely. But don’t mistake a pre-session “yes” for ongoing consent during a state where autonomy is fluid. Consent must be dynamic, not static—designed to survive shifting inner weather. Transference, authority, and suggestion Altered states intensify transference. That’s not a theory; it’s a predictable human pattern. In many journeys, a facilitator becomes more than a person. They become: · A parent · A rescuer · A beloved · A judge · A priest · A shaman · The voice of God · The one who “knows what’s happening” Sometimes the client explicitly says this. More often, their nervous system behaves as if it’s true. This is where power asymmetry becomes dangerous—not because the guide is malicious, but because the guide may be unaware how much authority the client is handing them. Suggestion operates differently in altered consciousness. A lightly spoken sentence—“Stay with me.” “Trust this.” “You need to surrender.”—can land as doctrine. A hand on the shoulder can feel like salvation. A boundary crossing can be reframed as spiritual initiation. And when someone is in the tenderness of transference, their “yes” can be an attempt to secure safety, closeness, or approval. That means the ethical question changes. It’s not only: Did the client consent? It becomes: What conditions made that consent possible—and what conditions made it impossible? If you hold the frame, you hold the power. If you hold the power, you must assume your influence is larger than you think it is. Ethical containment vs. spiritual authority One of the most common ways consent gets undermined in these spaces is through spiritual framing. When a facilitator is positioned as a conduit—of medicine, spirit, lineage, God, higher intelligence—the client can feel that disagreement equals failure, or that saying no equals resisting their healing. This is the difference between containment and authority. Ethical containment says: · “You are the ultimate authority on your body.” · “We can pause. We can stop.” · “Your ‘no’ is sacred.” · “We’re not here to force transformation.” · “We will go at your pace.” Spiritual authority (even when unintentionally performed) says: · “This is what the medicine wants.” · “Your resistance is the problem.” · “You have to surrender.” · “This is your initiation.” · “Trust me.” Notice how quickly those phrases can dissolve agency. Containment protects the person. Authority protects the story. In altered states, stories are intoxicating. Clients want meaning. Facilitators want coherence. Communities want testimonies. And the temptation is to treat intensity as evidence of truth. But intensity is not consent. Tears are not consent. Ecstasy is not consent. Awe is not consent. The ethical posture is restraint: not using the state to get what you want—emotionally, sexually, financially, spiritually, reputationally. Not letting the client’s openness become your entitlement. If you’re a guide, the goal is not to be believed. The goal is to be safe. Institutional duty of care The next layer is the one people avoid because it’s inconvenient: This isn’t just a personal ethics issue. It’s an institutional one. If an organization is hosting ceremonies, offering retreats, training facilitators, employing clinicians, or operating in any context where altered states occur, it carries a duty of care. Duty of care means you don’t rely on charisma and good intentions. You build systems that assume risk is real. That includes: · Clear scope and role definition (therapy vs. coaching vs. clergy vs. guide) · Explicit boundaries on touch, sexuality, finances, and dual relationships · Ongoing consent protocols with mid-session check-ins and opt-out pathways · Independent reporting channels (not “tell the lead facilitator who is the problem”) · Supervision and consultation for facilitators working with transference · Aftercare structures that don’t depend on continued access to the same guide · Documentation practices that protect clients, not just institutions · Cultural humility and trauma-informed training that goes beyond buzzwords If a community says it’s healing people but has no meaningful complaint process, no supervision, no boundaries, and no accountability, it is not a healing community. It is a stage. Altered states magnify whatever is already in the room. A healthy container becomes more healing. A porous container becomes more dangerous. Call to action: Design consent for altered consciousness, not legal comfort The easy move is to tighten language on forms and call it done. The ethical move is to redesign the whole consent architecture. Here’s the guiding principle: Consent in altered states must be redundant. Not because clients are incapable, but because conditions are unstable. Redundant consent means: · Consent is informed (what might happen, not only what you hope will happen) · Consent is ongoing (check-ins, pause options, re-choosing) · Consent is revocable without penalty (no shame, no spiritual diagnosis) · Consent is protected by structure (rules that do not depend on mood or chemistry) · Consent is backed by accountability (someone besides the facilitator can intervene) Design for the moment when someone cannot speak. Design for the moment when they want to please you. Design for the moment when they think you’re God. Design for the moment when they’re terrified you’ll leave. Do that, and you’ll stop asking, “Did they sign?” You’ll start asking the better question: Was their agency protected when it mattered most? If you’re a facilitator, audit your language. Audit your touch policies. Audit your training. Audit your supervision. If you’re an institution, build real duty-of-care systems. If you’re a participant, trust the part of you that goes quiet when the frame feels unsafe. Consent isn’t the finish line. In asymmetric power dynamics—especially in altered states—consent is the beginning of responsibility.
By Silent February 4, 2026
Insurance Will Decide What Ethics Could Not Tone at the Top There is a quiet but decisive force shaping the future of psychedelic medicine, and it is not regulators, ethicists, or even clinicians. It is insurers. For the last decade, the psychedelic field has leaned heavily on ethics statements, professional manifestos, and aspirational codes of conduct. These were necessary. They were also insufficient. Ethics without enforcement are values without leverage. And leverage, in modern healthcare, comes from risk underwriting. Insurers do not care how inspired your mission statement is. They care whether your outcomes are defensible, your processes repeatable, and your exposure containable. Where the industry hesitated to self-regulate with rigor, insurers will now impose standards with mathematical indifference. They will not be gentle. 1. Outcome Accountability Is No Longer Optional The psychedelic sector has relied on narrative outcomes for too long. “Transformational experiences.” “Breakthrough healing.” “Deep personal insight.” These may resonate culturally, but they fail actuarially. Insurers price risk, not intention. Underwriting models are already shifting toward outcome accountability—measurable, longitudinal, and comparative. This does not mean every patient must improve. It means you must be able to demonstrate how improvement is defined, tracked, and contextualized against known risk factors. Expect questions like: · How do you define a successful outcome at 30, 90, and 180 days? · What percentage of patients show symptom regression? · How are adverse psychological responses documented and escalated? · What is your protocol when integration fails? If your answers rely on practitioner intuition rather than documented pathways, coverage will narrow—or disappear entirely. The uncomfortable truth: insurers are becoming the de facto outcomes review board. Not because they want to shape consciousness, but because unmeasured outcomes create unbounded liability. 2. Documentation and Reproducibility Will Be the New Gatekeepers Psychedelic practice has celebrated the uniqueness of each journey. Insurers will tolerate that only up to the point where uniqueness becomes non-reproducibility. From an underwriting perspective, variability without structure is indistinguishable from negligence. Documentation requirements are already tightening: · Session preparation protocols · In-session monitoring records · Post-session integration notes · Referral and escalation criteria · Informed consent specificity (especially around non-ordinary states) Reproducibility does not mean standardizing the experience. It means standardizing the safeguards. Insurers are asking a simple question: If two different clinicians follow your model, will they make materially similar decisions when something goes wrong? If the answer is no, premiums rise. If the answer remains no, exclusions appear. This is where many well-meaning clinics will stumble. They confuse practitioner freedom with operational ambiguity. Insurers will not. 3. Liability Exposure Scenarios Are Expanding—Not Shrinking Much of the industry’s risk modeling remains stuck on acute harm: bad trips, boundary violations, or improper dosing. Insurers are already looking further downstream. Consider the emerging liability scenarios: · A client makes a major life decision post-session and later alleges undue influence. · A pre-existing dissociative condition is exacerbated despite screening. · A client discontinues psychiatric medication without medical coordination. · Integration support is insufficient, leading to functional impairment months later. · A clinician deviates from protocol under perceived “intuitive necessity.” Each of these scenarios is survivable—if you can show that your system anticipated them. Liability does not hinge on whether harm occurred. It hinges on whether harm was foreseeable and whether reasonable safeguards were in place. This is where insurers become unforgiving. Not because they are hostile to psychedelic work, but because ambiguity is expensive. 4. Why Insurers Care More About Integration Than Ideology Here is the paradox the industry has not fully grasped: insurers are less concerned with the psychedelic session itself than with what happens after. Integration is where risk lives. From an insurer’s point of view, the altered state is time-bound. Integration is indefinite. It is where meaning-making intersects with behavior, relationships, employment, and identity. It is where claims emerge. This is why underwriters are increasingly focused on questions such as: · Who provides integration, and with what credentials? · How long does integration support last? · What happens when integration reveals trauma beyond scope? · How are clients transitioned back to primary care or mental health services? · What documentation exists to show continuity of care? Ideology—whether spiritual, therapeutic, or transformational—does not mitigate risk. Structure does. Insurers are effectively saying: Believe whatever you want. Just show us how you prevent people from unraveling afterward. This is not an attack on meaning. It is an insistence on containment. 5. The Strategic Miscalculation the Industry Is Making Many psychedelic organizations assume that insurance pressure will slow the field. The opposite is more likely. Insurance standards will separate scalable models from boutique practices. Those who prepare will gain access to broader markets, institutional partners, and eventually public trust. Those who resist will be confined to the margins, regardless of their ethical purity. This is not a moral judgment. It is a market reality. Healthcare systems expand through risk transfer. If risk cannot be priced, it cannot be scaled. If it cannot be scaled, it will remain niche. The industry’s mistake is framing insurance as an external imposition rather than an internal mirror. Insurers are simply quantifying what the field has been reluctant to formalize. 6. Call to Action Prepare for underwriting questions now, or answer to exclusions later. This means: · Auditing your outcome definitions · Formalizing integration pathways · Stress-testing your documentation · Clarifying scope-of-practice boundaries · Designing for reproducibility, not mystique Insurance will decide what ethics could not—not because ethics failed, but because ethics without infrastructure cannot carry risk. The future of psychedelic medicine will not be determined by who speaks most eloquently about transformation, but by who can demonstrate responsibility under pressure. Tone at the top matters. And right now, the tone is being set by underwriters.
By Silent January 21, 2026
Tone at the Top | For clinicians, regulators, and practitioners  There is an uncomfortable truth circulating quietly through conference halls, investor decks, clinics, and regulatory briefings alike: the psychedelic field is moving faster than the human systems that support it. Everyone feels it. Few are naming it plainly. This is not an argument against growth. Nor is it nostalgia for a pre-commercial past that never truly existed. Psychedelic substances have always lived at the intersection of healing, power, culture, and economy. What has changed is the velocity and the incentives driving it. Today’s growth curve rewards speed, branding, and market capture far more than clinical depth, ethical maturity, or long-term integration. That imbalance is no longer theoretical. It is structural. And it is beginning to show. Venture Timelines vs. Human Integration Timelines Capital moves on quarters. Humans do not. Venture-backed timelines demand proof points: indications approved, clinics opened, patient throughput increased, IP secured. These pressures shape everything downstream, from trial design to therapist training to how outcomes are defined. But psychedelic care unfolds on a different clock. Integration is nonlinear. Adverse experiences may surface months later. Meaning-making does not obey revenue models. A treatment that “works” at week six may unravel at month six if the container is thin. Clinicians see this tension daily. Practitioners feel it in their bodies. Regulators sense it in the growing gap between protocol compliance and lived reality. When financial timelines compress human processes, the risk is not inefficiency; it is harm that arrives quietly, after the dashboards are green. Brand Narratives Masking Structural Weakness In a crowded market, story becomes currency. Words like healing, transformation, and revolution now appear more frequently in pitch decks than in clinical supervision. The aesthetic of care, soft lighting, indigenous symbolism, carefully curated language, can give the impression of depth without the burden of building it. Brand narratives can temporarily substitute for infrastructure. They can smooth over under-trained facilitators, thin integration pathways, or governance models that treat ethics as an appendix rather than a spine. This is not cynicism; it is pattern recognition. When narrative runs ahead of operational maturity, organizations borrow trust instead of earning it. Borrowed trust always comes due. The Monetization of Mystique Psychedelics carry something rare in modern medicine: mystery. That mystery is not a flaw, it is part of their power. But mystery, once monetized, becomes fragile. The field now sells access not only to molecules, but to meaning itself. Retreats promise insight. Clinics promise rebirth. Platforms promise scalability of the ineffable. When mystique becomes a revenue driver, two distortions emerge. First, expectations inflate beyond what any ethical clinician would guarantee. Second, adverse outcomes are reframed as user failure rather than system responsibility. This dynamic quietly erodes informed consent. Patients are no longer entering treatment; they are entering a narrative they feel pressured to fulfill. What Happens When Trust Collapses Trust is the invisible substrate of this entire ecosystem. Patients extend trust not just to clinicians, but to institutions, regulators, and the unspoken promise that someone has thought deeply about second- and third-order effects. When trust collapses, it does not do so symmetrically. Patients withdraw first. Then clinicians disengage. Regulators respond last, but decisively. History offers no shortage of examples where promising therapeutic modalities were set back decades, not because they failed clinically, but because they failed ethically under pressure. A single high-profile breach, poor screening, inadequate integration, conflicts of interest obscured by branding, can reset the entire regulatory climate. Trust, once broken, is not rebuilt by marketing. It is rebuilt by restraint. The Leadership Question No One Can Avoid This is not a frontline problem. It is a leadership problem. Boards, executives, principal investigators, and policy architects are shaping incentive structures right now that will determine whether this field matures, or fractures. The question is not can we grow? The question is what kind of growth are we legitimizing? True leadership in this space requires resisting false binaries. It is possible to be commercially viable and clinically rigorous. It is possible to scale and still protect the slow, human work of integration. But it requires governance models that value delay as much as delivery. It requires metrics that track downstream well-being, not just upstream access. It requires saying “not yet” when the market is shouting “now.” Call to Action: Slow Growth Is Not Failure Let us be precise. Slow growth is not failure. Careful sequencing is not weakness. Ethical friction is not inefficiency. Unexamined growth, however, is a liability. For clinicians: protect your boundaries even when demand surges. For practitioners: name when the container is thinning. For regulators: resist pressure to equate speed with progress. For leaders: build systems worthy of the states you are unleashing. This field does not need more momentum. It needs more maturity. The real question is not whether psychedelics will change medicine. They already have. The question is whether the industry built around them will earn the right to last.
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